We work a lot in our lifetime. We go to school, we follow additional courses, we make a career. We commute to work, take care of our children and our home. We can be very serious about all that. I know I was and still am. Some people like to fantasize what they would do … Continue reading Are you serious about your free time?
What are possible consequences of being ‘too good’ as a child? Being the good child has implications on developmental challenges during childhood and adolescence. While other children can display a wide set of emotions like jealousy, greed, anger and disobedience, the good child learns that those emotions are better tuck away in de depths … Continue reading When the ‘good child’ becomes an adult.
I am too friendly and too nice. I am so helpful that even I don’t like me anymore. The friendliness is the outer shell, it is a defense-mechanism due to fear of abandonment. That is not to say that I am not a friendly person deep down because I am but sometimes I overdo it. … Continue reading Too good to be good.
I don’t remember when I lost the connection to my feelings. I do know that I live in my head now. Constantly. I can think about everything and doubt everything. I don’t ‘just’ think about things but I second guess myself a few times before I can make a decision. What big decisions do I … Continue reading Depression and Motivation.